Showing posts with label suicide. Show all posts
Showing posts with label suicide. Show all posts

Protest against Indian PM Narendra Modi's crap speech

On 15th August 2014, while addressing the nation, Indian Prime Minister Shri. Narendra Modi spoke about shit. He said, "our" mothers and sisters don't have toilets. Hence they defecate only in dark ! He said, we need to build toilets for our mothers and sisters. While he was talking about this, he assumed that Indian Men like to shit in public. The PM is totally out of touch with reality. In India females frequently do shit in open areas in broad daylight. No one likes to shit in open including Men. But he didn't mentioned Men, because for him, Men do not have any shame.
It is this inherent bias and prejudice that is prevalent in society, due to which Men suffer. Even a person like Prime Minister of India is no different. He has the same shitty orthodox biased mindset against Men.

http://pmindia.gov.in/en/register/

Please send the below letter to Shri. Narendra Modi, Prime Minister of India,
Address ::  Prime Minister's Office, South Block, Raisina Hill, 
New Delhi-110011

Dear Mr. Narendra Modi,
                                      With high expectations, we eagerly heard your speech on 15th August 2014. We had high hopes that you can lead the nation forward. Hence with high hopes we were eager to hear your address to the nation on 15th August 2014. Till today, you had presented yourself as a person, who has different ideas then the traditional orthodox methods of taking India forward. 

You mentioned the topic of defecating in public. However you were only concerned about females. For you males are useless (except for political gains). You didn't seemed to care about males at all. For you fathers and brothers are only for sacrifice. You think that fathers and brothers like to defecate in public.
Hence you want to build toilets only for females. Such biased and prejudice  mindset has resulted in untold sufferings for males.  No wonder Men of this country are committing suicide in huge numbers. It is this biased mindset of yours, which always mock at Men, resulting in depression in Men, and pushing them on the verge of suicide. 
I hope the knowledgeable PM is aware of the vast number of Men committing suicide in India every year. Certainly a matter of shame for any leader of the country. Since these suicides is a failure of the leadership.

Please see below the statistics about suicides of Males in this country every year. Such insensitive comments of yours in one of the main reasons of suicides. Men are always looked down upon, and treated like shit. You think Men do not have shame ?? With no one to care for them, suicide is the only option left open for Men in India.



Year Men Women
2001 66850 42310
2002 69332 41085
2003 70221 40630
2004 72551 41046
2005 72916 40998
2006 75702 42410
2007 79205 43342
2008 81471 45680
2009 80544 44473
2010 87180 47419
2011 87839 47746
2012 88453 46992
2013 90543 44256


 I sincerely hope that you will be sensitive about feelings of Men in future. Do care about the Fathers, Brothers and Sons of India. They are human too.


 Thanks and Regards
 Sandesh Chopdekar

Why nagging by wives be made a criminal offense

Many people, might be surprised by the title. In India, the suicides of men (married men in particular) are increasing at an alarming rate every year. Every year, double the number of men commit suicide, then women. Men in India face enormous amount of stress. Tons of responsibilities are pinned on them. Right from childhood, it is imbibed on their mind, that they need to be protector and provider for the other members of their families. More specifically for the female members of their family. If the need arises they have to sacrifice themselves for their family.
All these unjust demands, are taking a heavy toll, on the physical and emotional well being of a men. Nagging is one of the worst form of torture, that can be inflicted on anyone. However when done to a man by a women, it goes un-noticed, and not even taken note of. A man, when he comes home, after a strenous day at work. Going through all the maddening traffic in India, with a very bad transport system. In the public transport system, (though the majority of travellers are male) reservation is made for females. So more stress for men. Finally when he reaches home, it is just for him, to expect some peace at home. But in many households the moment, the man enters the house, he faces a barrage of verbal abuse. Many men get depressed due to this inhuman behaviour that they are subjected daily at home. Since an over whelming majority of the husbands are afraid of their wives, they don't have the courage to reply back. Instead of helping such men, Indian society mocks at men. The problem is worsened by the fact that men are not even allowed to express their feelings about the abuse they undergo at home. If a men expresses his harassment, he becomes a subject of ridicule. Thus adding to the stress.
With nowhere to vent the treatment meted out to them, men who are crushed under these various pressures, try to find an outlet. The only outlet, for those specifically from lower strata of the society is to take recourse to some addiction like liquor. For some, this makes them deaf to the nagging of their wives. Some cannot bear the constant verbal torture, and try to answer it physically. In that too they loose, since the wife also fights back, but shouts loudly. And society views that a drunk husband has came home, and is hitting the poor abla naari (helpless women). Society now bays for the blood of the husband. And some "brave" people like Anna Hazare and his likes, who claim to be true followers of Gandhi. Take pleasure in canning such helpless and unarmed husbands.

Ironically, instead of tackling the root cause of the issue, Indian law makers create laws to encourage wicked women to harass men more. IPC 498A, Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act 2005, Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, CrPC 125, etc, are some example of these pervert mentality. The proposed draft about paying a house wife will add more misery to the life of Indian Men. Men have to face harassment at home, and they have to pay for that too !