Motherhood is not tied to female gender, and females are NOT goddesses

In many debates, one point often raised by feminists and orthodox/socialists/communists/PC's is, Ah, but women is a mother/Goddess, and NO mother can be evil. Further these perverts want us to believe that women are Goddesses.
This argument implies, that only a women can be a mother. In ancient Indian texts, lot of sanctity is attached to the term Mother. While going through the ancient Indian texts, it is pretty clear, that the term mother is not at all attached to the physical female gender. Relating Prakriti to physical female gender, is plain stupid and nonsense. It exposes a very shallow understanding of these ancient text.


Females are not goddesses, and females were never worshiped in ancient India. In Devi Bhagwat, the Devi (Goddess) herself says that she is not a female, and considering her as a female is stupidity. The Goddess further says that she is beyond all these physical classifications.

In Maharashtra(India), there were many great saints like Dnyaneshwar, Tukaram, who called Lord Vitthala, as their mother. This even though Lord Vitthala has a wife (Rukmini). But these saints call Vitthala as their mother and not Rukmini.
The definition of Mother as given in these texts is someone who cares for, who is the creator, and not the one whose gender is female.
Devotees of  these saints term these saints as their mother. Hence Dnyaneshwar is referred to as "Maauli" in marathi, which means a very affectionate mother. This is because Dnyaneshwar cared for people, and he created Dnyaneshwari for the masses. There are plenty of references in spiritual text,where the traditional male God is referred to as Mother.

Hence please stop glorifying female simply because they can give birth. In the future this dependence on females is going to be anyways eliminated.

Modi and Men as emotional fools

While many Men were salivating at the rumors of Modi government diluting the matrimonial laws. When it comes to favoring women, there are no rumors but direct action. As we saw today in the statement by Home Min. Rajnath Singh.
"Union Home Minister Rajnath Singh today said in Delhi that his department issued an advisory to state governments to ensure 33 per cent reservation for women up to Sub-Inspector level in state police."
http://www.business-standard.com/article/pti-stories/j-khand-bjp-hails-decision-to-increase-women-in-police-force-114091200994_1.html
In fact Gujarat has already done that
http://indianexpress.com/article/cities/ahmedabad/guj-cm-announces-33-reservation-for-women-in-police-force/

How easily BJP made a fool of Men. Still many Men believe that Men should trust Modi. Their argument is, he is a reasonable Men. We should have patience, Blah, Blah, and more BS. Emotional fools. It is this emotionally foolish mindset, which causes depression amongst Men. Even when the Modi government is openly screwing Men, Men want to believe that PM Modi will do good for them.

Look at how demanding women are, they are never apologetic. Women organization are very vocal and militant. They shamelessly ask for reservation as if it is their birthright. When all research has already proved, the hollowness of their claim. When a women hits a men, it is hailed as liberation for women. However, when a Men hits a women, he becomes an accused. And other Men are in the forefront of attacking him. In fact, other Men, to portray themselves as protector of women, go over the edge, and try to physically assault this Man. Other Men even feel ashamed, as if they have committed crime. It is this attitude of Men, which needs to be removed.

Men need to remove the negative feeling of being apologetic, for no fault of theirs. Men need to fight for their rights, and not wait for someone to drop crumbs in their plate.
Till the time, Men show such spineless attitude, acche din(Good Days) for Men will be a distant dream.

Protest against Indian PM Narendra Modi's crap speech

On 15th August 2014, while addressing the nation, Indian Prime Minister Shri. Narendra Modi spoke about shit. He said, "our" mothers and sisters don't have toilets. Hence they defecate only in dark ! He said, we need to build toilets for our mothers and sisters. While he was talking about this, he assumed that Indian Men like to shit in public. The PM is totally out of touch with reality. In India females frequently do shit in open areas in broad daylight. No one likes to shit in open including Men. But he didn't mentioned Men, because for him, Men do not have any shame.
It is this inherent bias and prejudice that is prevalent in society, due to which Men suffer. Even a person like Prime Minister of India is no different. He has the same shitty orthodox biased mindset against Men.

http://pmindia.gov.in/en/register/

Please send the below letter to Shri. Narendra Modi, Prime Minister of India,
Address ::  Prime Minister's Office, South Block, Raisina Hill, New Delhi-110011

Dear Mr. Narendra Modi,
                                      With high expectations, we eagerly heard your speech on 15th August 2014. We had high hopes that you can lead the nation forward. Hence with high hopes we were eager to hear your address to the nation on 15th August 2014. Till today, you had presented yourself as a person, who has different ideas then the traditional orthodox methods of taking India forward. 

You mentioned the topic of defecating in public. However you were only concerned about females. For you males are useless (except for political gains). You didn't seemed to care about males at all. For you fathers and brothers are only for sacrifice. You think that fathers and brothers like to defecate in public.
Hence you want to build toilets only for females. Such biased and prejudice  mindset has resulted in untold sufferings for males.  No wonder Men of this country are committing suicide in huge numbers. It is this biased mindset of yours, which always mock at Men, resulting in depression in Men, and pushing them on the verge of suicide. 
I hope the knowledgeable PM is aware of the vast number of Men committing suicide in India every year. Certainly a matter of shame for any leader of the country. Since these suicides is a failure of the leadership.

Please see below the statistics about suicides of Males in this country every year. Such insensitive comments of yours in one of the main reasons of suicides. Men are always looked down upon, and treated like shit. You think Men do not have shame ?? With no one to care for them, suicide is the only option left open for Men in India.

Year	Men	Women
2001	66850	42310
2002	69332	41085
2003	70221	40630
2004	72551	41046
2005	72916	40998
2006	75702	42410
2007	79205	43342
2008	81471	45680
2009	80544	44473
2010	87180	47419
2011	87839	47746
2012	88453	46992
2013	90543	44256

 I sincerely hope that you will be sensitive about feelings of Men in future. Do care about the Fathers, Brothers and Sons of India. They are human too.


 Thanks and Regards
 Sandesh Chopdekar

Why nagging by wives be made a criminal offense

Many people, might be surprised by the title. In India, the suicides of men (married men in particular) are increasing at an alarming rate every year. Every year, double the number of men commit suicide, then women. Men in India face enormous amount of stress. Tons of responsibilities are pinned on them. Right from childhood, it is imbibed on their mind, that they need to be protector and provider for the other members of their families. More specifically for the female members of their family. If the need arises they have to sacrifice themselves for their family.
All these unjust demands, are taking a heavy toll, on the physical and emotional well being of a men. Nagging is one of the worst form of torture, that can be inflicted on anyone. However when done to a man by a women, it goes un-noticed, and not even taken note of. A man, when he comes home, after a strenous day at work. Going through all the maddening traffic in India, with a very bad transport system. In the public transport system, (though the majority of travellers are male) reservation is made for females. So more stress for men. Finally when he reaches home, it is just for him, to expect some peace at home. But in many households the moment, the man enters the house, he faces a barrage of verbal abuse. Many men get depressed due to this inhuman behaviour that they are subjected daily at home. Since an over whelming majority of the husbands are afraid of their wives, they don't have the courage to reply back. Instead of helping such men, Indian society mocks at men. The problem is worsened by the fact that men are not even allowed to express their feelings about the abuse they undergo at home. If a men expresses his harassment, he becomes a subject of ridicule. Thus adding to the stress.
With nowhere to vent the treatment meted out to them, men who are crushed under these various pressures, try to find an outlet. The only outlet, for those specifically from lower strata of the society is to take recourse to some addiction like liquor. For some, this makes them deaf to the nagging of their wives. Some cannot bear the constant verbal torture, and try to answer it physically. In that too they loose, since the wife also fights back, but shouts loudly. And society views that a drunk husband has came home, and is hitting the poor abla naari (helpless women). Society now bays for the blood of the husband. And some "brave" people like Anna Hazare and his likes, who claim to be true followers of Gandhi. Take pleasure in canning such helpless and unarmed husbands.

Ironically, instead of tackling the root cause of the issue, Indian law makers create laws to encourage wicked women to harass men more. IPC 498A, Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act 2005, Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, CrPC 125, etc, are some example of these pervert mentality. The proposed draft about paying a house wife will add more misery to the life of Indian Men. Men have to face harassment at home, and they have to pay for that too !

The nonsense called "Reservation for Women"

In Pune(India), public buses entirely reserved for women have been launched. The authorities recruited and selected women conductors for these buses. Already in all public transport buses, 50% of the seats are reserved for female passengers. On one hand, there is a huge false propaganda, that the ratio of females is declining. Then why flat 50% reservation for women. Add to that, most of the people traveling are males. This makes the reservation for women pure nonsense. Even if an elderly male seats on these women only seats, normally young women would make the elderly man vacate the seat. This is the shameful "Women Power".


http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/pune/Time-table-for-special-PMPML-buses-announced/articleshow/16711281.cms
 http://epaper.loksatta.com/60882/loksatta-pune/07-10-2012#page/3/2  (In Marathi)

 TOI printed this story, but seemed ashamed to print, that women conductors had left their job immediately after just three days of service.

Why did these women conductors quit their job ? The primary reason being, that  women in general don't want responsibility. They don't want stressful jobs. They are mostly interested in non-stressful desk jobs. Add to it,  they know, that in general women are impolite and intolerant. It is much more easy to handle men. And more importantly,  women get harassed most from women. Hence women try to avoid each other, and hide behind men. If Indian women are so capable, why do they always run away from stressful jobs ?

Such reservation for women, is a very cheap gimmick. Even though majority of the workforce is male. That too, those who are involved in hard physically demanding jobs are mostly men. So who needs more travelling comfort, Men or Women ?  Most of the money that the public transport system makes, comes from men's pocket. And it is shamelessly splurged on facilities for lazy women. These women are really woe-men  (You are free to interpret :))

Indian women crushes skull of her three month old daughter, but pleads innocence

An Indian women crushed  her daughters head, which resulted in the death of the three month old child. Inspite of this in-humane act, the so-called social liberators in India, are out to defend the women.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/Battered-babys-mom-hadnt-imagined-she-would-kill-her/articleshow/16692336.cms
Dharmishta told the cops that Aahuti had been crying incessantly and she couldn't take it anymore. In a fit of rage, she crushed the child's head while Aahuti was nuzzling up to her on September 23. Later she also crushed the infant's body, fracturing her ribs and spine.

As usual, the police have filed complaint against the father too. Even though the father was unaware of his wife's cruel acts. 

Despite this gory act, Indian media is shamelessly trying to defend the women. Even though the perpetrator of the crime is a women, this is portrayed as a "Crime against women".  And trying to somehow  implicate the father too. Even when it is clear that the father was totally unaware of his wife's misdeeds

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/Crimes-against-girls-begin-very-early/articleshow/16693875.cms
The violence inflicted on three-month-old Aahuti Joshi by her parents. 

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/Small-things-can-push-a-mother-over-the-edge-Docs/articleshow/16692477.cms 

The outcome of this gruesome incident  is very predictable. The women in question will be acquitted, or let away with some very minor punishment. As was seen in the below case where the women, had mercilessly killed the infant, by fracturing its skull.
http://www.indianexpress.com/news/for-lack-of-evidence-court-acquits-unwed-mother-of-newborn-s-murder/624209/

The judgement for this case is uploaded on google docs.  
https://docs.google.com/open?id=0BxN9VUEsEebHbHYteFlZQUlEN2s

Even with all such events, Indian society still cannot believe that  "A women can be a criminal"

Indian mother sells baby boy to buy mobile phone, jeans and tops

An Indian mother sold her baby boy, for Rs. 5000 (less then $100). 

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Mother-in-Odisha-sells-baby-boy-to-buy-mobile-phone-jeans-and-tops/articleshow/16657212.cms

the money was used to buy a mobile phone and a pair of jeans among other things. "Rakhi Patra of Mundamala village who sold her 17 month-old son for Rs 5,000 purchased a new mobile phone, a pair of jeans, few new tops (to go with the jeans) and memory cards for her mobile with the money," Jajpur superintendent of police Deepak Kumar said on Wednesday.

And further
Rejecting the mother's claim that she sold the child to meet the legal expenses of her jailed husband, Kumar said her new acquisitions were evidence of the fact that she did not sell her baby boy due to poverty.
...The woman refused to take back her son after police handed her the boy after recovering him from Cuttack on Tuesday.

Now in place of the baby boy, if it would have been a baby girl, imagine what would have had happened ? The news would have been plastered over everywhere. News media would be full of reports, as to how girl child are treated in an in-humane way in India.  How the gender ratio is so skewed in India. How girls are unwanted, blah blah blah.

Now this women has acted in an inhuman way and lied. But don't think, that she has committed any offense. Since it is a well settled principle of law in India, that women cannot commit any offense. And if she does, that would be because of some grave compulsion. And if anyone presses for charges against her, that person will be termed as "Anti-Women".

Being objective is termed as anti-women

During any gender debate, if you put unbiased thoughts about equality. That men and women should have equal rights and responsibilities too. You will be immediately termed as anti-women. Things have gone to such extreme, that even if you ask for basic rights for Men, and don't say anything about women. The first query, that is often put up is "Are you anti-women" ?  On the other hand, those who bash up males and put up extremely biased anti-male thoughts are hailed as social reformers.

If one looks at the real facts, like the constantly growing suicide of Men in India. If one tries to spread awareness about how men are over stressed in all spheres of life, and which is causing this silent genocide of men. Still the first query, that is often put up is "Are you anti-women" ?

If you objectively try to fight for Mens Rights, you will be always be labeled as anti-women by majority of the public. Why do people think that being objective is "anti-women". There are several reasons for that. We live in a society which is very gender biased, and heavily sympathetic to women. Add to it, from childhood, minds are poisoned against males. Human civilization has still to mature, to truly understand the meaning of equality. Till the time, that maturity comes, Mens Rights Activists (MRA's) will always be termed as anti women.

But are MRA's concerned about this narrow minded view of the society ?  Well of course not. Since MRA's know, that human civilization has not yet matured, and it will take years to shed thousands of years of cultivated anti-male hatred (misandry). If anyone is terming MRA's as anti-women. It is the incorrect perspective of the male hater. Hopefully with efforts of MRA's, we will live in a society, where there will be gender equality.

Satyamev Jayate and the art of False Propaganda

This blog post is dedicated to the arm-chair, self-proclaimed conscious social activist. Please read this ENTIRE post before commenting.....

 

*.) On 6th May, I saw the episode of "Satyamev Jayate"(SJ) on TV. Female foeticide was the topic. I nearly cried seeing the episode. Girls  are being killed in their mothers womb. Amir Khan did a fantastic job. I was horrified to learn about this ancient practise still being carried out in modern day India. Helpless abla naari's are forced to abort their child. What an evil society (sob sob). The episode was a real eye opener.

 They showed how male:female ratio is getting lop sided. Grooms aren't finding brides because of all this female foeticide. Thus adding to the problem in a "sex-starved" country. Suddenly it struck me, if I go outside my house, I see mostly males everywhere. Where  have all the ladies gone ? In buses, on roads, in offices, everywhere males are more in number then women. My God, how ignorant of me, how come I didn't realized this. That's why, No "nayan sukh" tch tch.

 I browsed through their website, and pledged my support to the cause. I posted my comment. I felt better.  I have done my small bit for the cause. Well done Amir. I will try spreading the word. STOP killing the GIRL child.

 

*.) Indira Gandhi 
 So well entrenched is the male dominance in this country, that women face an uphill task proving themselves in this country. Take the e.g. of Mrs. Sonia Gandhi. Only because of this lady's charisma, the Congress party could win elections. But still she couldn't become the PM, when she had every right to it. Issues about her foreign origin were raised. Clearly overlooking the fact, that her stay in India is more then in Italy. Even now, this same male dominated society is okay to accept her son Rahul, but her highly talented daughter Priyanka has been kept away from politics. Indira Gandhi, was similarly taunted as "Goongi Goodiya" meaning dumb doll. Keep in mind, that this same, dumb doll, handed Pakistan a crushing defeat. No male Indian PM has been ever able to equal her feat. Shame to the gender-biased Indian people, sorry men.

*.) Every now and then there are rape stories in the media. One survey had concluded that India was the 4th most dangerous place for women, in the whole world. Shame on Indian men. They are no.1 lechers and not content with being lecher, if they see, any gullible women, their first thought is to rape them.

*.) Bride burning

 From the book, Super Freakonomics  - "More then 100,000 young Indian women die in fires every year, many of them "bride burnings" or other instances of domestic abuse.
 This is just the tip of the iceberg. Amir Khan must create one more episode on this.

*.) Aryan Invasion Theory 

   The local people in India were an uncivilized lot. Hence the Aryans had to come down to educate these people (or rather beasts). The Aryans transformed the culture of this country from being uncivilized adivasis to one of the most advanced culture in the world at that time. However with time, all that the Aryans taught was forgotten, and thousands of years later, it took the British to reform this country. Had the British not arrived in India, India would have never caught up with the world in the area of science, and all aspects of modern civilization.

Conclusion ::  India is really an evil country. India is the worlds biggest arms importer, and preaches peace to the world, what a hypocrisy. The USA should probably nuke this country alongwith Af-Pak.  That would solve most of the world's problem. This area is a hot bed of problem for the world.

Please note, that all of the above are equally true (or equally false). If your believe in one, you believe in ALL of these. Some people would agree with some, and disagree with some. If you agree with any of these, please continue reading below.

 The intelligent person would easily know, the true facts, and that all of the above examples are plain bull crap.

*.) Female foeticide

   There are stringent laws in place to tackle this so-called fantasy.

   IPC - 313. A mere verbal complaint by any women, that she was forced to abort her child, can land whoever she accuses in jail. Whether her accusations are true or false, is a subject matter of trial. The very trials, which are slow and torturous. The punishment for this offence is 10 years to life imprisonment.  
 Propaganda is that female infanticide is going on for centuries. Then by this time, female species should have had vanished in India (or atleast some parts of it)  ?
 If the gender ratio is so lop sided, then common sense would tell that demand for brides would be higher and dowry would be given to girl's family, isn't it ? Still AK shows how prevalent dowry practise is in India, and how girls family is harassed.
 Covered more in depth by Virag http://legalfighter.wordpress.com/2012/05/08/aamir-khan-promotes-female-feticide/

*.) Bride Burning

  Have a look at http://www.facebook.com/BrideBurningHoax?sk=info

*.) Rape Stories
 Please wait, the Indian govt is working on introducing new laws to curb this menace. It might help you to know, that majority of the rape cases are found to be of consensual intercourse. Just deal gone bad. Do RTI and collect your own data. Even google will show you some data. Check judgements on rape cases - both acquittals and convictions.

*.)  Indira Gandhi - She was very eager to attack Pakistan, at that very moment. But the then army chief convinced her to wait, and prepare well. He won the war, and accolades went to Indira. She was called Devi(Goddess), etc. What the army won during war, was lost by Indira at the discussion table with Pakistan. During her rule, sycophancy had reached its peak. If you read current news, you yourself decide about Sonia Gandhi and Congress.

*.)  Aryan Invasion Theory
       http://www.dnaindia.com/india/report_new-research-debunks-aryan-invasion-theory_1623744
       http://www.hindunet.org/hindu_history/ancient/aryan/aryan_frawley.html

Hope in the future, you will use your brains first, before jumping to conclusion on false propaganda like "Female Foeticide".

The problem most people in India have is that the show is conducted by Amir Khan(AK). AK is a good actor. But being a good actor, doesn't means, he is conscious about the social reality. Majority of the Indians take the criticism directed towards AK as very personal. When emotions run high, objectivity is normally the first casualty. If people don't have the stomach to face opposing views, such people shouldn't speak/debate about social issues. Most of these AK fans are arm chair activists.
The AK fans say, he is spreading awareness. Fact is, AK is earning money, out of pain inflicted on society. This is actually a severe form of moral corruption. More to say, but tired of the tirade now :)

Please stop spreading misandry (male hatred)